Bullying Full Stop

 

Are You Being Bullied?

or

Is Your Child Being Bullied?

 

You can learn how to stop the bullies with specialist advice and training using tried and tested skills and techniques which consistently prove to be successful. Learn how anyone can ensure that they can never be bullied again. 100% Guaranteed!


Attention: Prices increasing after 30th November, 2008

Imagine if you could stop people bullying you, for good! How would you see yourself living your life if you could never be bullied again? What differences would you see in the mirror if you knew that you could prevent anyone from ever intimidating you?

What if insults simply ‘bounced off’ you? If every time someone attempted to offend you, you actually felt better about yourself? If you truly didn’t care when someone attempted to hurt you?

How would you feel if you knew that in a few days time no one would ever be able to ‘put you down.’ What would it be like to be completely free from the pressures of bullying? To feel empowered to be able to deal with any type of confrontation successfully, every time?

Sounds too good to be true? I work with several people every month who achieve exactly these results and I can show you how to make it work for you too. If you are a parent, I can work with both you and your child so that they learn the key skills and techniques to make them ‘bully proof’ and you have the skills to support them.

Hiya Mark,

Sorry we haven't been in touch. James has been saying hes going to mail you and let you know how its going.

Well, the day you left we had a chat with James and he seemed very positive. That very evening though, he was on the internet and he discovered That one of the bullies was going to beat him up because someone had said James was coming on to his girl fiend. Despite trying to explain someone was setting him up he went into a panic and was crying and refusing to go to school and nothing we said seemed to have any effect. Anyway, despite the bad start we tried to explain to him even though he had two days of help from yourself nobody expects him to be a different person over night and not to expect too much too soon. Within a few day (and i mean 3 days) nothing phased him and he's a different person. He can't wait to go to school to see what they want to try next. It appears most of them have lost interest. James is enjoys the response he gets from the bullies when they see he is not bothered by their attempts to intimidate him.

He text me on the way to school the other day and said he was walking to the bus stop with a silly grim on his face and he felt that happy he wanted to dance around the land post. I'm glad he didn't - people who think he's mad!!!

We have got the old James back now - thanks to you. Let us know when we can leave feedback on your web site - it will be glowing feedback!!!!

I will ask James to send you a mail tonight so you can hear it from him.

Thanks again Mark - your a saviour.”

Alison
South Wales

Who Can Benefit From This Training & Advice?

Adults:

  • Bullied at work
  • Bullied by managers
  • Bullied by coworkers
  • Bullied by groups at work
  • Bullied by employer
  • Bullied in social groups
  • Bullied by family members
  • Bullied by neighbours

Children:

  • Bullied at school
  • Bullied by individuals or groups
  • Bullied in the classroom
  • Bullied in the school yard
  • Bullied out with school
  • Bullied by brothers or sisters
  • Bullied in clubs or at organised events
  • Bullied online

Which Bullying Situations Can I Get Help With
(You can tick all the boxes which apply to you)

     Physical bullying
     Verbal bullying
     Name calling
     Sneering
     Glaring
     Threats
     Intimidation
     Humiliation
     Insulting
     Spreading Rumours
     Cyber bullying
     Text & picture messaging
     Ignoring
     Abusive phone calls
     Sexual harassment
     Group bullying
     Institutional bullying
     Abuse of authority

I’m going to explain to you how my clients achieve such good results in such a short period of time. First though, let’s look at why my training is so unique:

All schools in the UK have anti bullying policies. They are better equipped to deal with bullying than ever before. Yet recent studies show that 1 in 4 children are currently being bullied!:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/education/7033810.stm
http://www.theargus.co.uk/news/2049278.one_in_four_school_pupils_in_brighton_and_hove_have_been_bul lied/
Employers have a legal responsibility to protect their employees from bullying and yet workplaces shares the same 1 in 4 statistic:
http://www.channel4.com/health/microsites/0-9/4health/stress/saw_bully.html

So it shouldn’t come as much of a surprise that I choose not to use mainstream techniques. I deliberately set up as a self-funded business rather than a charity so that I would have the freedom to do what works, instead of what would have been expected of me by whoever controlled the funding. While others are educating about the problems of bullying, I am delivering training in the solutions.

Bullying is so wide spread in the UK that it is an integral part of our culture. Did you know that the two worst professions for bullying in the workplace are teaching and nursing? (Bully In Sight, by Tim Field). If teachers get bullied more than anyone else then how can we expect them to be able to prevent our children from being bullied?

 

What’s The Secret?

Human beings are predictable creatures. We have instinctive behaviour responses to thousands of stimuli. Bullies take advantage of some of these natural responses in order to hurt you. They set up patterns of behaviour in themselves and in others in order to get what they want. And they are not alone. Chimpanzees bully other chimpanzees, lions bully other lions and dogs bully other dogs. Have you heard of ‘pecking orders?’ Its a system where hens all peck each other to establish a ranking of dominance. The most effective hen at bullying is at the top of the social order. In every species of ‘social animals’ bullying takes place. We humans like to think of ourselves as civilised but perhaps we still have a lot of work to do to separate us from the rest of the animal kingdom.

Once you understand your own, unconscious, behavioural responses, and you develop skills and techniques to be able to change them, you will be able to change the behavioural responses of others. Namely, the bullies. You will be able to discourage them from bullying you, often without saying a word. You can take control of your own emotions and you will be able to control the emotions of anyone who tries to hurt you.

Hi mark its james, im sorry i haven't emailed you i just felt i wanted to give it a while to work and test things out. Let me start of by saying how happy i now am in school, i wake up in the mornings and look forward to going to school, i find my self walking down the street or just anywhere with a big smile on my face for no aparent reason and it feels great. I see the usual culprates in school and they haven't changed a bit, the only thing that has changed is they seem to be taking it up a level which is fine by me because i walk past them now with a big smile on my face and to be prefectly honest its getting a bit boring now and to be honest very sad on there part im the one walking around the school with the big simle on my face and freinds who truley like me for the person who i am and not because i go around scaring people into being my freind and that is what they are doing so in my eyes they are the ones who need help. i would like to thank you for evrything you have done for me, before this i felt as if there was no hope and the remainder of my school life was going to be a missery but thanks to you and the tools you have give me that is no longer the case. I also feel i will be able to use this in the future and prevent anything like this from starting again.I am also interested in doing a simliar job like you and i would very much like to go down that road and am doing some reasearch into it at the moment.

James (15)
South Wales

Dear Mark,

I feel brilliant! My boss has completely changed his attitude towards me. Instead of all the intimidation and threats he now asks politely when he wants me to do something. He even asked my advice on what work he should give me! I can’t believe the difference. I only wish I had done this 2 years ago. Thanks Mark, if it wasn’t for you I would have had to leave my job. I don’t know what I would have done.

Debbie
Wolverhampton

How Does The Training Work?

First of all, I like to make the training fun. Fun makes learning easy. The session is incredibly practical and we will be doing lots of exercises together which re-enforce the positive emotions you will need. How would you like to feel when someone tries to hurt you? Confident? Empowered? Happy? Self-Respectful?.... You choose your own combination and we will build your perfect state of mind for any confrontation.

We will discuss your current situation. I need to know in what ways you are being bullied and I need to know how you have been reacting, both physically and mentally. Then we can begin to build specific strategies for each situation you are likely to encounter so that you are ready for anything. We will also be testing the strategies using role play. To begin with, I’ll ask you to play the part of the bully and I’m you. It’s amazing how much insight you can gain about the bullies’ thought processes doing this exercise. Afterwards, we reverse the roles and you will truly realise how powerful these techniques are. We can then experiment, adapt and play with the techniques and strategies until they are absolutely ‘airtight’.

We are only finished when you are completely happy that you are going to be able to deal with any bullying situation well.

 

What Will  I Learn?

  • What makes bullies do what they do
  • How to recognise what your own unconscious reactions are
  • How to spot what is motivating bullies to pick on you
  • How to influence bullies to change their behaviour towards you
  • How to utilise key stimulus - response mechanisms
  • How to gain instant respect
  • Several anti bullying strategies specifically tailored for your circumstances
  • Essential body language skills
  • To understand and use key voice tone skills to powerfully influence others
  • To choose the correct things to say in every bullying situation
  • To truly not care when someone makes an attempt to hurt you
  • How to prevent someone from physically hurting you, without having to hit them!

Which of the following emotions would you like to have more of:
(Tick as many boxes as you like)

       Confidence
       Self-esteem
       Respect
       Contentment
       Resolve
       Bravery
       Comfort
       Dignity
       Forgiveness
       Self-Assuredness
       Admiration
       Inner strength

Your training will go way beyond solving your current bullying problem. You will be able to create the perfect state of mind you need for any situation. Be it a job interview or an important business deal, the skills you will learn can help you through all sorts of challenges. Imagine your future without limitations and take an important step to realising your ambitions.

Hi Mark

Results are good! The bullying has completely stopped! I can’t believe what a difference this has made. Samantha still wants to move class but the girls are leaving her completely alone. The skills you have taught her will be so useful to her througout her entire life. Thank you so much!

Janet
Manchester

 

Will It Work For Me?

This training really does work for everyone. Every bullying situation is different but they do all follow similar, fundamental patterns of human behaviour. You have to adapt the techniques and skills you learn for your own unique situations and I will show you how. Some people take longer to learn than others and that’s okay. I charge by results, not by the hour. I offer a full money back guarantee that this will work for you.

 

Is There Ongoing Support?

I am available to you for up to one month after your training for extra support, should you need it. If you need me to go over a part of the training again or if some new unexpected problem crops up then we can arrange a telephone call and I’ll give you the extra help you need. This service is included in the price.

How Much Does It Cost?

Anti bullying training and consultancy work for companies costs in excess of £1,800 per day.

Like me, I’m sure you appreciate value for money. I am offering you complete one-to-one training, specific for your needs for only £395.00. For this, I will travel anywhere in the UK to work with you. No extra charge for travel or accommodation expenses, I pay them myself.

After November, I intend to spend much of time creating anti bullying products (I’m writing a book, creating a DVD and CDs). This means I am going to limit my service to only working with 2 clients per week and I will be putting my price up to £495.00. Book now to pay the lower price and to ensure that I still have availability.

I accept payment by cheque, Google checkout and Paypal.

Call 0845 257 6436 now
or
email: mark@bullyingfullstop.co.uk

to book your training session.

Mark, We really cannot thank you enough for changing our lonely unhappy son back to the happy boy he always was. Our house is such a happy one again now and I feel I am sleeping better knowing he is enjoying going to school and looking forward to his G.C.S.E.s without any worries from those ‘bullies’.
We hope your business is really successful. It was the best money we have ever spent. Take care and we will be in touch.

A very grateful
Pauline & John